By Patrick Ogunnaike
Is she about to break up with you?
Well, if you are having a hard time determining whether your girlfriend is just upset or if she’s planning on breaking up with you, then it’s probably the right time to look into it. You should always trust your instincts.
Every relationship goes through a rough patch every once in a while, but if the one you are going through is a bit longer and more severe than usual then you may be in danger of losing your girlfriend. It’s your responsibility to find out the cause because you can be sure that your girlfriend will not be saying anything.
You need to know the telltale signs that she’s considering breaking up with you so you can do something about it.
Here are some of the most common signs that your girlfriend is going to break up with you. You need to act fast as soon as you notice them.
- Dry and Lifeless Conversations– If your recent talks have become bland and monotonous, this is a clear sign that your girlfriend is seriously contemplating breaking up with you.If she’s stopped teasing you playfully and she doesn’t get upset at you if you forget to call her or even send her a text, then she has probably lost any feelings she had for you. If you do not do anything to rekindle her feelings then you’ll probably find yourself becoming single pretty soon.
- No More Plans for the Future– If in the past, you and your girlfriend used to have conversations talking about planning for your future together, but recently those talks have stopped, then that is a clear sign that she does not see a future with you in it.If she’s stopped using the words “we” and “us” when talking about her plans then those are clear signs that something’s wrong and a breakup may be imminent. Test her;see how she reacts when you talk about your plans for your future. If the conversation becomes awkward and she tries to avoid the subject then you have your answer right there. It’s even worse if you try to bring up the subject and she becomes frustrated at you.
- She Stops Prettying Herself Up For You – If at the start of your relationship your girl used to take more than an hour dressing up her hair and putting on her makeup before you went out on a date, but recently she decides to let herself go and even stop shaving her legs for you, then you can be sure that she will be leaving you soon. She may be behaving this way so that you will become disgusted with her and leave her on your own.
- No More Physical Intimacy – If your girlfriend starts dodging your every advance, stopped giving in to your kisses, or even your hugs, then you do not need to be a rocket scientist to know what will happen next.
If you see one or more of these signs in your girlfriend then you’re definitely at risk of losing the woman you love. She may be considering breaking up with you but you may still be able to prevent it.
You need to step up and confront her on how she’s acting, try to find out what’s going on head on. The answer to your problems might be simple to figure out or it may all just be a misunderstanding. You’ll never know if you don’t ask.
If you find that she is seriously considering leaving you then the absolute worst thing you can do is beg or convince her to stay. I know, that’s easier said than done but that’s what you have 2 balls for. You can ask her to stay, tell her you love her and that you want her to stay but don’t sacrifice your dignity and turn into simpering pile of mush.
If you want her to stay, you need to make her believe that a future without you is not a future that she wants to live in.
As the man in the relationship it’s your job to lead, don’t chase her trying to convince her that she should stay, this will only make her run faster. She needs to see that with our without her you’re going somewhere in your life, then and only then will she be drawn to you again.
If you don’t see yourself as a “catch” then why should she?